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Strengths Spotting Worksheet

A structured one-page tool for identifying and naming strengths in team members — before your next 1:1, team review, or feedback conversation.

What Is Strengths Spotting?

Strengths spotting is the practice of deliberately observing and naming what someone does well — with enough precision that they can recognize themselves in it.

Most leaders rely on intuition for this. They have a general sense that someone is “good with people” or “strong analytically” but haven’t developed the vocabulary or the habit to make it specific.

This worksheet gives you a structured process. Use it before 1:1s, feedback conversations, performance reviews, or team-level strengths mapping exercises.


Part 1: The Observation Log

For the team member you’re focusing on, recall 3–5 specific moments in the past month where they were effective, engaged, or operating at a high level. Use this log to capture what you observed.


Moment 1

What happened / what did they do?


What was the context or challenge?


What specifically did I observe — what words, behaviors, or decisions?


What was the outcome or effect?



Moment 2

What happened / what did they do?


What was the context or challenge?


What specifically did I observe?


What was the outcome or effect?



Moment 3

What happened / what did they do?


What was the context or challenge?


What specifically did I observe?


What was the outcome or effect?



Part 2: The Pattern Analysis

Review your observations from Part 1 and look for threads.

What do these moments have in common? (Think about: the type of challenge, the mode of engagement, the effect on others)


What underlying capability or quality do they reflect? (Use the vocabulary below, or your own language)


What does this person do naturally that others often find difficult?



Strengths Vocabulary Reference

Use this list as a starting point for naming what you observe. The most useful names are often combinations or adaptations — “contextual intelligence” is more precise than “smart,” for instance.

Thinking Strengths

  • Analytical reasoning / systems thinking
  • Pattern recognition across domains
  • Conceptual clarity — making complex things simple
  • Strategic foresight — thinking three moves ahead
  • Intellectual humility — holding positions with openness to being wrong
  • Synthesis — combining disparate ideas into coherent frameworks

Communication Strengths

  • Precision in language — says exactly what they mean
  • Audience awareness — adjusts tone and frame instinctively
  • Storytelling — makes information land through narrative
  • Active listening — creates the experience of being deeply heard
  • Difficult conversation navigation — holds truth and relationship simultaneously
  • Facilitation — holds space for multiple perspectives productively

Relational Strengths

  • Trust-building under pressure
  • Psychological safety creation
  • Conflict de-escalation without losing the substance
  • Advocacy — champions people and ideas credibly
  • Mentoring instinct — develops others without being asked
  • Team attunement — reads the room and adjusts

Execution Strengths

  • Reliable follow-through under ambiguity
  • Resourcefulness — finds paths when obvious ones are blocked
  • Pace calibration — knows when to push and when to pause
  • Translating vision into action steps
  • Quality discipline — holds standards consistently
  • Calm under pressure — best when stakes are highest

Leadership Strengths

  • Decision clarity — makes calls when others hedge
  • Values coherence — lives what they say
  • Constructive challenge — pushes back without destabilizing
  • Generosity of credit — amplifies others’ contributions
  • Presence — full attention as a leadership act
  • Long-game thinking — willing to sacrifice short-term for the right outcome

Part 3: The Feedback Statement

Using your observations and pattern analysis, draft a specific, evidence-based strengths statement to share with the person.

Template:

“When [specific situation or pattern], I observe that you [specific behavior]. That reflects [strength name] — [what makes it valuable]. I’ve noticed it [impact or effect].”

Your draft:





Part 4: The Forward Point

Great strengths-based feedback points toward application, not just acknowledgment.

Where else could this strength be applied?


What opportunity, project, or role would allow this person to use this strength more?


Draft a forward-pointing suggestion:

“Given this strength, I’d love to see you…”



Team Strengths Map (Optional)

For team-level use: after completing this worksheet for each team member, create a simple grid mapping individuals to their top 2–3 identified strengths. This makes the team’s collective capability visible and supports better role design, delegation, and collaboration.

Team MemberStrength 1Strength 2Strength 3

Use the map to ask: Where are we strong as a team? Where might we have gaps? How can we collaborate to cover each other’s less-developed areas?

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